Have you been friendzoned by your crush? 5 red flags to look out for

Praveen Agrawal | Sep 02, 2025, 12:14 IST |
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"Romantic feelings or just friendship? Here are five telltale signs that your crush considers you to be a good friend but not a love interest. If you notice these signs, you are most probably better off forgetting about being in a relationship with your crush
Romantic relationships are an integral part of one’s personal journey and often add a new dimension to one’s life. However, they can often be complicated as there is a thin line that separates ‘romance’ from plain ‘friendship’. To make things more complicated, friendship is an integral part of all romantic relationships but not all ‘friends’ are lovers. So, how do you figure out if you have been ‘friendzoned’? These five signs may give you some clarity either way.

Watch out for friendly nicknames

It is common for people to come up with nicknames for their acquaintances. However, if your crush starts calling you ‘bro’, ‘brother, or even ‘buddy’ it is a dead giveaway that you are nothing but a friend. In other words, you are stuck (maybe permanently) in the friend zone. Want proof?



Just watch Kuch Kuch Hota Hai! In the film, Anjali (Kajol) had her heart broken when Rahul (Shah Rukh Khan )-- who teased her with nicknames-- decided to treat her as an amigo and not a lover. Interesting

Are they comfortable discussing crushes with you? Red flag spotted

If your crush constantly keeps raving about a ‘cute co-worker’ or even a celebrity right in front of you it is a sign of trouble. This usually indicates that they have never even in them and are themselves not sexually attracted to you. toyed with the idea of you being romantically interested

They set you up with others

Has your crush ever tried setting you up with someone from the office or even a relative? If yes, then consider yourself friendzoned for good. Such things, again, are a clear indication of them not even considering you to be a romantic interest. As such, if your conversations with your crush ever take such a turn, consider yourself to be out of luck.



A classic example of this was seen in Kal Ho Naa Ho when Naina (Priety Zinta) tried to find a suitable partner for Rohit (Saif Ali Khan) as she wasn’t romantically interested in him.

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  • friendzone
  • red flags in romantic relationships
  • signs you are friendzoned
  • how to know if you're friendzoned
  • romantic relationships vs friendship

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